Subscribe to the Tuesday Briefing

Tuesday Briefing · No. 15 · 19 May, 2026

Invisible work and noticing what goes unnoticed

Someone on your team is holding up more than you know.

Emily Rust

Emily Rust

Founder, Stones


Featured

Good morning. Every organisation runs on two kinds of work and, as a leader, it's worth taking a moment to consider what this looks like. And, who carries the load.

The first kind is visible: the project delivered, the negotiation closed, the presentation landed. It gets acknowledged, celebrated, put in performance reviews. The KPIs on track.

The second kind is much quieter, often invisible - especially to leaders further up the chain. It's the person who smooths things over when tension rises. The one who brings a new team member into the fold without being asked. The one who notices when someone's struggling and does something about it - before it becomes your problem.

Think of it as grease in the system. Not the engine - the thing that stops the engine seizing. It reduces friction, absorbs tension, and keeps things running without anyone asking it to. You rarely notice it when it's there. You notice fast when it's gone.

This is invisible work. And research consistently shows that it's disproportionately underrecognised - and that when it goes unnoticed long enough, your best people quietly start to leave.

Who carries it, and what it costs

The academic term for it is organisational citizenship behaviour - the voluntary, relational work that keeps teams functioning but doesn't show in any job description. Linda Babcock and her colleagues, in The No Club (2022), documented how this work falls disproportionately on those who are agreeable, those who are newer to the team, and - the data is clear - disproportionately on women. But, not only on women.

The cost is real: less time for the work that gets rewarded, slower progression, and an accumulating sense that their contribution is invisible to the people who matter. It also accumulates in a different way.

McKinsey names this specific pattern - extra relational work, consistently unrecognised in performance reviews - as one of the clearest drivers. The work is load-bearing. The people doing it aren't just quietly frustrated. They're depleting.

For leaders, the cost shows up differently. When invisible work goes unrecognised, you're running a silent tax on the people carrying it. They don't stop - at least, not at first. They absorb it. But they notice that you haven't noticed. And eventually, they stop doing it, they burn out, or they leave for somewhere that promises to see and appreciate them.

The upstream action is simple: notice it, and say that it matters. Not in a performance review, in the moment. That's it.

The grease doesn't need a ceremony - it just needs acknowledgement.

What it looks like

  • The team member who notices the quiet person in the meeting and draws them in
  • The person who remembers a colleague is having a hard time at home and checks in
  • The one who cleans up the communication after a tense exchange - sends the follow-up, repairs the relationship
  • The informal mentor who answers questions that were never their job
  • The person who flags a dynamic in the team before it becomes a crisis
  • The person who tends to a key relationship before it has any urgency - because they know that by the time it does, it'll be too late
  • The one who takes time before a meeting to make sure the right people understand what's coming, so the conversation that needs to happen actually can

None of this shows up in a deliverable. But without it, teams become harder to work in, slower to recover from setbacks, and less likely to surface problems early.

The fairness question

Here's what makes this more than about recognition: invisible work is not distributed randomly. It tends to fall on the people who are most attuned to others, most willing to help, and least likely to say no - which often means it falls on the same few people, week after week.

If you've never asked yourself who does the relational maintenance in your team, it's worth asking now.

How to start seeing it

Most performance conversations and 1:1s focus on what was delivered. Invisible work requires noticing how things are going - the subtle dynamics, the unrequested effort, the texture of the team, not just its outputs.

Ask yourself: who do people turn to when they're struggling? Who holds things together when there's tension? Who makes sure no one gets left behind? Who smooths things over before they get wrinkled? If the same name keeps coming up, and that person isn't being recognised for it - that's your information.

How to acknowledge it

Specificity matters. Generic praise - "you're such a team player" - can feel hollow, and sometimes signals that you're not quite sure what you're thanking them for.

Try these instead:

  • "I've noticed how you brought [name] into the team this month. That made a real difference - [say what you saw change]."
  • "I want to take a minute to recognise something. The way you handled the tension in the team last week - quietly but directly, without making it a big deal - that's the kind of leadership that compounds. The flow-on effect I've seen since has been [name a positive outcome]."
  • "I've been thinking about the work you do that doesn't show up in KPIs or deliverables. Your relationships, the support you provide the team, the way you hold things together when things are a bit rough. I want you to know I notice it, and I really value it. Thank you."

Three things you can do today

  1. 1

    Name it.

    Think of one person carrying invisible work right now. Name what they're doing, specifically, not generically. "Team player" isn't specific. "The person who makes sure new people don't feel lost" is.

  2. 2

    Say it.

    Tell them what you see, this week. Use their name. Be specific about what you've observed and why it matters. Don't wait for a performance review or 1:1.

  3. 3

    Look at the pattern.

    Think about who does the invisible work in your team consistently. If it's the same one or two people, that's worth addressing more formally, not just acknowledging. Check in with them on whether it's a role that brings them satisfaction, or something they're feeling depleted by. Be open to considering how to alleviate unsustainable pressure, through time, resources, or flexibility in how they manage their capacity. Stay tuned for more on this next week.

Recommendations

READ: Give and Take - Adam Grant (2013). Particularly the chapters on the hidden cost of being the person everyone leans on.

The people who hold your team together are usually not the loudest ones in the room. Make sure they know you see them and their wider contribution.

Emily Rust

That's all for this week's briefing.

Emily Rust · Founder, Stones

The archive

Every past edition

Browse the back catalogue. One leadership idea per week, all in one place.

Emily Rust

No. 25 · 28 Jul, 2026

Learning from what goes wrong, why most team reflection doesn't change anything, and what does

Most retrospectives are honest and well run. Then the next project surfaces the same problems.

Emily Rust

No. 24 · 21 Jul, 2026

Psychological safety: what it is, what it isn't, and what leaders can do to build it

Most leaders believe they've built it. Their teams often experience something more conditional.

Emily Rust

No. 23 · 14 Jul, 2026

Capacity, what shapes it, and what leaders can do about it

This week: what shapes your team's capacity, and a few small moves that give some of it back.

Emily Rust

No. 22 · 7 Jul, 2026

Meeting design, when the calendar is a symptom, not the problem

Most meeting frustrations aren't just about having too many meetings. They're about having the wrong kind.

Emily Rust

No. 21 · 30 Jun, 2026

Working hard isn't the same as moving forward

Mid-year is when direction, energy, and alignment quietly drift. Here's what a reset looks like.

Emily Rust

No. 20 · 23 Jun, 2026

When someone on your team is going through something hard

The line between being a decent human being and getting out of your depth, and how to stay on the right side of it.

The Tuesday Briefing

One idea, every Tuesday.

Join the leaders who start their week with one practical idea worth acting on.